by Eun Kyung Kim
The 2 ladies behind “The Rules,” the Bible that is dating on to relax and play hard-to-get, have actually offered their 1995 guidebook a reboot to help single ladies get back control over love life lost to social media marketing.
Texting and Twitter might not have existed as soon as the initial handbook came away, but вЂњNot Your MotherвЂ™s Rules: The New tips for DatingвЂќ relays exactly the same message given that “the guidelines” did in those days: be mystical and youвЂ™ll have the guy.
вЂњItвЂ™s harder today, because two decades ago, there is simply the telephone. Maybe maybe Not also mobile phones,вЂќ said Sherrie Schneider, whom co-wrote the book with Ellen Fein. вЂњToday, a man can text you, IM (immediate message) you, Skype you, G-chat. He is able to allow you to get in 10 technologies that are different. ItвЂ™s harder to be mystical. ItвЂ™s harder to be evasive you are because he can see everywhere. You post updates вЂ“ youвЂ™re at Starbucks. YouвЂ™re an open guide.вЂќ
First off, the authors (nevertheless) discourage females from initiating the step that is first any discussion.
вЂњWe had ladies who would inform us, вЂI adore your вЂRulesвЂ™ and I donвЂ™t contact guys, I donвЂ™t e-mail вЂ“ but we compose them on Facebook,вЂ™ They thought by perhaps not calling, they might IM them and do anything else,вЂќ said Fein. Continue reading